Tuesday, July 24, 2012
The Role Of The Family
More and more couples separate, their relationship ending badly.
Our society has developed and learned all about the technique, the cienia, urban planning, computer science, but not live together, form a stable, lasting.
Most men tend to believe that their partners are animals like dogs, and can dispose of them subhuman.
Many people say their lives have become a root fracazo relate to this or that lord, lady.
Every day is more divorces and breakups of couples 10, 15-year relationship, every day is more the lack of importance of marriage.
Perhaps this is due to a lack of understanding of what is the role of each within a relationship of pareja.Tal may be that both people feel more rights than the other.
Either way, I think before you start a relationship but things should be clear that men and women ambos.El today should share the household responsibilities.
Modern marriages are characterized by both people, both men and women work, they bear the expenses of the house or apartment and decide together the future education of their children.
But there's more, is not only a purely economical relations, also has a lot of important "desire."
That is, one has the desire to be intimate with your pareja.La tenderness, affection, expressed in the act sexual.Tambien respect.
If my partner appeals to me, like me, makes me feel good in private, if at night I look forward to being able to play intimately, to be alone sharing the bed with him, her, that means, I'm really in love in love.
If you do not feel desire, if the relationship is difficult to cope with me and I avoid being with my partner, that means that the love between me and her there.
So both should try to always maintain their physical, personal appearance, age means nothing when you knows how to dress elegantly, when you keep fit, when you know how to be gentle when you know which places to go with your partner, to enhance the fire.
A romantic dinner, a stroll through the countryside, a trip, are good ways to break the once monotonia.Tal marriage councilors suggest that some couples traveling together.
Even more painful to one and another of infidelity.
Infidelity destroys the relationship, the untenable, difficult, intolerable is logically so, for who can be with a person who is cheating?
For infidelity is not nothing like sharing the responsibilities and work together, educate their children together, work hard so that nothing falte.Las tokens of appreciation are very important, a gift from time to time, remember the December birthday, anniversaries , celebrate, take pictures of the best moments are things that are nurturing a relationship and are becoming more durable.
Think about whether you want to get involved with someone else, be careful to see that their relationship is not necessary falle.Haga, right to the fire is not that what today apague.Para not end tomorrow starts abruptly.
The ideal person does not exist, there is the right person, the perfect person does not exist. Remember that people change, have their own starting aspiraciones.Antes put things on the table, talk a lot and thoroughly familiar with your boyfriend, girlfriend , couple.
A men give these councils:
1 ° Do not beat your wife not be a coward
2 º Respect your partner, your children, take care to give them food, that's your duty.
3 ° not act like a thug with your family, do not treat your children and your wife as if they were servants. End up abandoning yourself
4 ° Do not live drunk, do not waste the money that you can use to bring food to your home.
5 º Try to be your partner, support, protection, loving and understanding.
6 º Behave like a man and not a miserable, be kind, loving with your children, do not humiliate, insult, threaten, because you leave.
For women I suggest:
1, Always keep the food ready to their hours, the house clean, tidy.
2 º To be always beautiful, clean, no matter how old they are.
3 º To love your partner, are loving, sharing problems together.
4 ° Educate the children, teach them to make things, not cocky.
5 º To be good lovers, show your partner that UD is his wife.
6 ° Do not allow hit you, get help, do not allow you to humiliate, insult, get help. A man does not deserve to live with any mujer.Merece abandon it, arm yourself with courage and give it up.
7 th Report the physical and psychological abuse do not stay silent.
8 º A man who beats, insults his partner is a caveman, miserable, which should be in jail.
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